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1. Live in a different city

The suburbs of Northern Virginia were mostly all I knew and could recall (having immigrated here from Korea when I was 4). I did not dare...

2. Get rid of your bad habits

I have several bad habits but one severe one. I have Trichotillomania, most commonly known as hair pulling anxiety disorder. It’s a rare...

3. Splurge on something expensive

Other than my most expensive investments on education, I decided to splurge on a single item that also would help me develop a hobby. I...

4. Binge watch past dramas, movies, etc.

This one was not hard at all. I started with old American romantic comedies and such: The Proposal, Miss Congeniality, Forgetting Sarah...

5. Go on a road trip

In Korea, “road trip” is not really a popular notion due to the fact that there is always heavy traffic and public transportation is...

7. Take a solo trip

a. This one was at first the scariest thing I had ever done in my life after my first clubbing experience at age 18 at Fur Night Club in...

9. Take a family vacation abroad

My family immigrated to the United States in 1994, when I was 5 years old. Moving countries itself was such a big move, that our...

10. Learn to forgive and also say sorry

It was not easy though, to forgive those who hurt me whether intentional or not. The pains that were received at an early age were...

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